Re Oscar Wilde, I'm surprised you didn't know about him being gay, BM, I thought it was one of the things that made him well-known besides his wit.
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On the rare occasions when I use iTunes (I spit on it) to move part of my music collection to my iPhone 6 I just drag and drop from one to the other,...
It's not the least charm of a theory that it is refutable. The hundred-times-refuted theory of "free will" owes its persistence to this charm alone; some one is always appearing who feels himself strong enough to refute it - Friedrich Nietzsche